Winchester Hospice offered us the sanctuary we needed

Our son William, Will to us, was diagnosed with Leukaemia in 2016. He was just 18. Despite his illness, he dedicated himself to his passions. He was an exceptional drummer and performed in several bands, recorded albums and even played in Los Angeles! I was so proud. More recently, he became interested in spiritualism and other religions, complementary therapy and understanding the benefits of crystals and mindfulness. He read many books and spent his spare time meditating and we believe meditation gave him the strength to cope with his illness.

Around this time last year, after several years of gruelling treatment, we were told that there was no longer anything that could be done and he had just a few weeks left to live. We were devastated. We had to think about things we never thought we’d have to – like where Will would spend his remaining days. We all wanted his final days to be peaceful and somewhere we could spend as much time as possible together, and Winchester Hospice offered us the sanctuary we needed.

Before Will was admitted, we went for a visit. We immediately saw it would be the best environment for us all, but for Will in particular. He was given a bright room all to himself with plenty of space for us all. His girlfriend Holly was able to comfortably stay with him throughout the last 12 days of his life. His friends were able to visit, and we were able to use the family room with a kitchen, and the garden room. It really was a home from home and everyone made us feel incredibly welcome, creating a calm and restful environment. They did everything they could to make Will, and us all, as comfortable as possible.

On Christmas morning, Will died, surrounded by his family. It was incredibly difficult for us all, but I was comforted by the fact he’d been so well cared for in his last days.

We shall always be grateful to Winchester Hospice and the support they provided, helping us through the most dreadful time in our lives. Without them, I can’t imagine what that experience would have been like. And to think that a large proportion of the income they need to provide all this comes from charitable giving is astonishing.

Nicki Cook

Winchester Hospice supporter and Will’s Mum

This year, Nicki is supporting Winchester Hospice’s Christmas people to help raise important funds so that the team can be there for other families like hers. To support the Christmas appeal and donate whatever you are able to, click the button below.